You love your partner, but has your love life become a bit lackluster?
The desire to have sex can die out in a relationship for many reasons – low libido, life stresses, kids, lack of communication, etc.
But, just because you and your partner are in a sexual slump does not mean you can’t get back on track.
In fact, most couples go through a slump at some point during their relationship, no matter how in love they are and how healthy their relationship is.
The important thing to do is to address the elephant in the room and work on ways to get your sex life back on track.
If you’re looking for some ideas, read on to learn the top 5 tips to spice up your sex life with your partner.
1. Time to Go Toy Shopping
Likely, you and your partner have sex toys that you like to use in your alone time.
However, have you ever tried incorporating sex toys when you’re both together?
There are dozens of different options when it comes to sex toys, and even if you don’t like a lot of them, exploring them together can add an exciting element of change to your sex life.
You can play around with restraints, like handcuffs or blindfolds, use vibrators, dildos, or penis rings. Or, you could try a penis extension, which is perfect for making sex feel different.
2. Try New Sex Positions
Been doing a lot of missionary lately?
Then it’s time to spice things up and try new sex positions. There are literally hundreds of sex positions you can try out, and if you don’t like one, just move onto the next one.
Of course, we all know the bible of sex positions is the Kamasutra, which contains 245 different sex positions in total.
Spend a night trying a few new ones out and see what you like!
3. Explore Each Other’s Fantasy
Everyone has some sort of fantasy tucket into the back of their mind.
The problem is, however, that people often feel embarrassed about sharing their fantasies. However, if someone really cares for you and loves you, they won’t make fun of you for your fantasy, no matter how weird it is.
Chances are, you are just being too self-conscious and your fantasy isn’t that weird at all.
If you don’t feel comfortable revealing your deepest darkest fantasies right away, you can start with the tamer ones, and then as you feel more comfortable, build up to the wilder ones.
Then of course, once a fantasy is revealed, it’s time to act it out.
4. The Element of Surprise
Are you used to having sex with your partner a few nights a week, always an hour or two before bedtime?
If sex has become as routine to you as work and meal times, then you need to make a change. It’s time to incorporate an element of surprise.
Make a move on your partner when they’re not expecting it. Join them in the shower spontaneously, get things going in the morning before work, or send your partner some racy photos while you’re at work and let them know what’s waiting for them when they get home.
5. Talk Dirty
Talking dirty, whether via text or in person, can really help build up the anticipation of sex.
Send your partner a racy photo and text while they’re not home, or whisper something dirty into their ear when they least expect it – like while in the checkout line at a supermarket.
With these 5 tips, your sex life should be back on track!