This article is written by Christina Hart and is part of our “From Her” series. Christina is very attractive girl with a lot of experience in the dating world. She is here to share her knowledge to help men who struggle approaching good looking girls.
Think a girl is out of your league? Think again…
So you think certain girls are out of your league?
Why? Is it because you think they’re too “hot” for you? Too smart? Too sophisticated? Or do you just think you could never have a chance with a girl who looks that good?
Believe it or not, I’m here to tell you otherwise.
No girl is out of your league. If you’re a stand-up guy who treats women well, you should have more confidence than that.
As a woman, it’s flattering if any man approaches you. And as an attractive girl, I’m telling you that most men don’t approach us. If I’m ever interested in a guy, I usually have to approach him.
Why is this?
I’ve asked around and the answers astounded me.
Most men I know tell me that it’s actually because they’re intimidated (gasp!). Of me?! I ask. Why? They say that the number one reason they don’t approach a good-looking woman is that they think she’s out of their league.
That’s ridiculous. And both of you can lose out that way.
Here’s my point
You have a 50/50 shot of getting the girl’s number. But that’s only IF you ask for it.
I’m open to giving a guy my number just because he had the balls to approach me and ask for it. A real man goes after what he wants, and I like that. And so do a lot of women I know.
So get the idea out of your head that she’s too good for you when you haven’t even spoken to her yet. Maybe you’ll go up to her and discover she’s not good enough for you. Either way, finding out is better than wondering what if.
So put on your big boy boxers (or briefs) and go up to her already.
If you find yourself attracted to a woman, and she glances at you, chances are she is attracted to you too and wants you to approach her.
If you get a little smile, that’s a GREEN light! How do men miss this signal?! We flash it as obviously as we can. But most of the times, he stays put. And then we’re left thinking he just wasn’t that interested.
It all starts with ‘hello’ guys.
Just one simple word. Hi.
So if you’re feeling froggy then leap. Nothing’s better than when you see a guy you’re interested in and he actually follows through with a greeting. It opens the door for communication. Even though things have changed when it comes to dating, thanks to technology (not), most women prefer the traditional route. We think…if he’s interested, he’ll try. So when you don’t, well, you get the hint.
What’s the worst that could happen?
She gives you a fake number? Tells you she has a boyfriend? Politely declines your advance?
Most “hot” girls are more down to earth than you think. And even more have insecurities of their own.
So either way, your approach will be flattering and endearing. And it will make you ten times more of a man than the rest of them who don’t say anything at all.
– Christina Hart
So there you have it boys. If you see a girl you want, approach her.
1) It shows balls, and girls want a man who goes after it.
2) You don’t have a chance unless you try.
3) Who cares! Life is short, just go for it.