How to date women from foreign countries?
Dating women all over the world is one of the most rewarding things you can possibly do. I mean, there are so many beautiful women in this world that staying in your safe and comfortable home town would be the biggest mistake you can possibly make.
When I started my journey towards becoming a seducer, I approached one girl after another in my hometown in Germany. Every day I went out to meet new girls. I was obsessed with getting phone numbers. Some of the numbers led to dates and some of the dates led to more.
I had success and I met quite a few guys who were jealous of this success. I just didn’t feel it. I didn’t feel successful. Yes, I had some dates and a few short-term relationships, but something was missing.
The conversations I had were not as delightful as I wanted them to be. The interactions felt like hard work. I was missing the feminine energy. I was missing the passion. I was missing the excitement. My supposedly successful dating life in Germany didn’t provide me with what I truly wanted.
In case you are living in a Western country you might know what I am talking about. You might also ask yourself if there are other countries that provide you with women that are more passionate and relationships that are more exciting.
I traveled to a lot of these countries. I went on an international dating journey. This journey taught me a lot about myself and about how happy it can make you to find the right woman.
Please don’t get me wrong. I don’t say that you have to leave your country to find the right girl. Maybe you already found her. I’d be happy for you. But what if you can’t find her back home? Well, in this case the following tips have the power to change your life.
Free Yourself from the Negative Voices
Is it bad to have the desire to seduce women all over the world? No, it’s not. It’s totally natural to have the desire to date the women that you truly want to be with. No matter if you are into beautiful women from the Philippines or if you are into South American Salsa dancers…you should have the freedom to date whoever you want to date.
Unfortunately, a lot of men dream about having this freedom, but only a few of them live it. It’s not your fault. You have been conditioned to believe that your desire to date women who were born and raised in any other part of the world than the Western hemisphere is somehow wrong. You have been conditioned to believe that it is wrong to date one of those “Russian gold diggers” and that you are a pervert with yellow fever, just because you follow your natural desire to date Asian women.
Isn’t it sick that you are labeled as a weirdo with yellow fever, just because you are into a certain type of girls? I mean, nobody calls you “a sick bastard with a snow fetish” just because you are into white girls.
Do yourself a favor and stop listening to the negative voices. You are a free human being and you can date whoever you want. No matter if the woman of your dreams is black or white, let no one tell you that you can’t date her.
Study the Culture Before You Immerse in It
Immersing in a new culture is an important part of dating internationally. There is nothing more exciting than leaving the safe and secure borders of your home country in order to immerse in a new culture. Meeting the local women and connecting with them is an adventure that you don’t want to miss.
However, it can be a very short adventure when you don’t learn the basic rules of the local culture. I am dead serious. If you want to date women all over the world without risking failure, you should treat your cultural studies as your second major.
I will never forget the first date I had with a woman in the Philippines. I didn’t know anything about the culture and I made every mistake in the book. I even tried to kiss her in a public place. Everyone who is not a cultural illiterate knows that you shouldn’t do this in Asia.
Learn at Least a Few Basic Words
Knowing a few words in the local language can make all the difference between failure and success. And no, I don’t say that you have to be fluent in the local language. The women in the Philippines, for example, tend to speak English very well.
It’s not your goal to speak her language. That’s a goal you can set yourself once you’ve found the woman you want to marry. The goal is to show her that you are actually interested in the country and the culture and that you make an effort. In case you have never spoken to a foreign woman in her mother tongue, you won’t believe how amazed women are when you know a few words of their language.
A simple “hello”, “how are you?” and “you are beautiful” are all you need to remember. These words can be enough to make her smile like a happy child in a candy store. Sometimes the smallest things have the biggest impact.
Analyze What the Women Like
What I am going to say now might sound a bit controversial to you. I say it anyway, because I believe that it is an important part of international dating that is often ignored…maybe because it is so controversial.
I met a lot of women in many different countries and I would lie if I’d say that women from certain cultural backgrounds wouldn’t have certain preferences. It doesn’t matter if those preferences are based on the culture they live in, the media they consume or the upbringing they had. All that matters right now is that you understand that these preferences exist.
I think everyone knows that the majority of Asian girls are into white guys. Of course there are exceptions to this rule. However, having white skin is very popular in most Asian cultures. I just can’t deny it.
However, there are also countries where black guys are killing it. A black friend of mine has been to Serbia. After his trip he told me that it has never been easier for him to seduce women than in these two weeks. There are not many black men in Serbia and the women looked at him as if he was some kind of movie star.
Why do I tell you this? Well, because I want you to know that analyzing the preferences of the local women can turn your trip from a nice experience into the best freaking days of your life. Choose your destination wisely. You don’t have to make it so hard when it can be so easy.
Accept the Fact that She is Different
She is different. Who is SHE? She’s the foreign beauty you’ll meet on your international dating journey. She’s the girl you fall in love with and she might even be the woman you are going to marry.
I just want to warn you that she’s different than the girls you’d meet back home. She has been raised in a different culture. She lives in a different environment. She speaks a different language. Expecting her to be the same as the girls you meet back home is insane.
Unfortunately, a lot of guys expect that. I can’t even tell you how many emails I received from guys who were totally happy with their foreign girlfriends, but a bit disappointed that she didn’t enjoy the same movies and songs.
My Thai girlfriend can’t stand most Hollywood movies because the ongoing stream of nonsense that the main characters spit out gives her a headache. I mean, I can totally understand that and I would never expect her to like these movies. She is different and I accept that.
Respect the Local Dating Customs
I can’t stress that enough. It is so damn important to respect the local dating customs. I get the creeps whenever I see a foreigner trying to hug and kiss his Thai girlfriend in the middle of the biggest shopping center in Bangkok. It’s embarrassing.
And I am honest with you. As you (hopefully) read a few lines above, I made the same mistakes. I don’t blame you for making this mistake once, but if you are in a relationship with a girl from another culture, you should know the rules and you should follow them.
Unless you want to embarrass her every five seconds and force her to dump you, you should learn at least the most important dating no-goes of her culture. She and your relationship will thank you for it.
Maybe you are like me and you also have the feeling that something is missing in the dating world in the West. Don’t worry. It is okay to have the desire to date women from other parts of the world. You have the freedom to date whoever you want.
However, finding the perfect girl in a world with endless possibilities isn’t that easy, at least when you don’t know what you are doing. A basic understanding about the local culture and the dating customs can help. A few words in her mother tongue can make her smile. It is up to you if you want to improve your chances of finding love abroad. All I can say is that it’s worth it.