There’s a lot of misconceptions in the world when it comes to the best place to meet women.
Most guys grew up believing that bars or night clubs are the best venues to attract and meet girls to sleep with. This couldn’t be farther from the truth.
The absolute best place to meet women is the street, but during the day.
The best part is, hardly anyone does it, and you can use this to your advantage.
News Flash: Bars are one of the worst places to meet women.
Women in bars are hard to pick up.
Yes, you can get easy lays in bars, from sub par or desperate girls, but unless you are a professional athlete in the VIP, the 9’s and 10’s are not going to come easy.
But why is it so hard to meet beautiful women in bars?
1) They have their guards up
When a woman is hot, and in a bar, she knows she is going to get approached by countless amounts of guys throughout the night. Before she even steps foot in the bar/club she has her rejection shields up ready to deflect to 75% of guys who will come at her.
2) Easy Rejection
Like I just mentioned above, a hot woman is ready to reject over and over at the bar. The odds are she has been hit on by 5 other guys with the same line you are trying to use in the past hour. Rejection is easy.
Women in bars just love to reject guys.
You even find ugly girls start to reject guys if they have been hit on a few times in a night, they become mad with power.
Forget about that shit.
There 100 other guys at the club with the same frame of mind that you have, thinking they are going to get the same 5 girls that you want.
You have a lot of competition in the clubs and at bars. Every single guy in the place wants to get laid, and is trying to figure out the best way to do it.
There’s just no need to put yourself in such highly competitive state for women.
4) You have to use lines and “routines”
Well you don’t have to use line or pick up artist “routines” in bars or club, but the fact is that most people do, and because of the loud music and competition your pretty much forced to.
So why is the daytime the best place to meet women?
1) Your venue is the world
When you are practicing day game your venue is the world.
Women are everywhere. Look around. You will have 100’s of chances to approach in a single day just walking around town.
You can be approaching even when you just run down to the shop to buy a gallon of milk.
2) Women don’t have their rejection shields on
Women don’t have the rejection shield up while they are walking around day to day. They have no reason to. Men hardly ever approach women during the day.
You need to use this to your advantage.
3) Women fantasize about meeting their dream man during the day
Its every woman’s dreams to be swept off their feet by “prince charming”, while at the library or in the park.
Women want that special how you met story, like “we were waiting in line at Barnes and nobles and had the same book.” Not, “he bought me three tequila shots at shenanigans and we had sex in the bathroom.”
Make their dreams become a reality. Be that prince charming!
4) No special lines, routines, or tricks
The methodology of picking up women on the streets in the daytime is simple, and it works.
I will give all that and more below.
5) There’s no competition
Its simple. Men do not approach women during the day. Its hardly ever seen.
Most men now a days are too filled with approach anxiety and don’t even know how to say hi to a girl because of porn and other issues.
Just do the math.
There are 100’s of girls walking around the streets during the day, and maybe 5% of men actually approaching them.
There are probably 20 worthwhile girls at the club, and maybe 80% of men are approaching them.
Which odds would you take?
Stop killing yourself in the bars/clubs and start doing yourself some favors by looking for the available women in the right place.
So how do I meet these women during the day?
Find all that and more in Part 2: How to pick up women during the day
1) Step by step method to approaching and picking up women on the street that just plain works.
– No tricks or gimmicks
– Straight forward explanation, with videos
– Plus, a link to the newbies guide to picking up girls. How to go from too shy to say hello to competent approacher in 3 weeks.